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  • Jan. 5th, 2009 at 8:47 AM
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Back at work today, woe. It feels like vacation just slipped away WAY too quickly. But! I am wearing my new shoes, and it's supposed to get up to 65F today, although right now the weather is pretty miserable. For my Austin people, on Thursday I will be attending the Pop Princess Sing Along at the Alamo Drafthouse OMG!!! I am very excited. I'm hoping they did a whole narrative like they did for the Boyband Sing Along, but even just showing the videos is pretty amazing. I hope they show Circus. *grabby hands*

What else? In keeping with my Resolution of losing 10 pounds, I have been doing some internet research on weight gain from Paxil and how to lose it. Unfortunately, my efforts have yielded about 29385720 people's stories of how they gained a fuckton of weight on Paxil and now they can't lose it even exercising 5 days a week and dieting hardcore, and only ONE story of someone who actually managed to lose the weight. And that was because her doctor prescribed her Adderall.

Which makes me wonder if I should fake ADHD just to get Adderall, but probably that's not a great idea.

The issue with Paxil is that it compromises the metabolism by fucking up the adrenals. I'm taking Omega3 and Vitamin E in an attempt to help my metabolism out, but I think that combined with the cyst on my pituitary, it's probably a long shot in hell. I wonder if there's anything my doctor can do to help my metabolism. Because seriously, my frustration is beyond anything right now. I hate Paxil :( And it didn't even help me!

Enough whining. I need to finish reading MtYG fics! Before the reveal! Which is OMG SO SOON. With that in mind, I am wondering: if you wrote a story for MtYG, are you satisfied with the amount/quality of feedback you've gotten? (In general, not from me, obviously.)

Comments

[info]withdiamonds wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 03:22 pm (UTC)
I've gotten way more feedback than I expected, and it's lovely. Like, in spite of the super lame title and subject matter.
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 03:24 pm (UTC)
That's because your story is AWESOME :) Did you ever get your login issues solved?
[info]withdiamonds wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 03:30 pm (UTC)
I did, thanks to the head tech elf. I will spend the day feedbacking like mad.
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 03:32 pm (UTC)
I'm still reading crossovers. I don't know if I will get the motivation to read any of the bsb fics. *sigh*
[info]withdiamonds wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 03:35 pm (UTC)
I'm reading by recipient, but I must admit to not finishing all of them.
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 03:37 pm (UTC)
It helps that I am clicking the "back" button every time I see something like "the blond" or "the taller man". It really narrows things down :P
[info]withdiamonds wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 03:44 pm (UTC)
You're right, it's good to be able to know so quickly.
[info]musicboxgirl wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 03:58 pm (UTC)
I'm kind of surprised by the amount of feedback I've gotten. It's much more than I expected. I'm slowly making my way down the list by recipient. So far I've finished every story I've started even though there's a few I really shouldn't have. *sigh* I need to learn to use my "back" button.
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 04:19 pm (UTC)
I am very happy with my back button. On the other hand, I haven't read a lot of the fics because I don't like the pairings. *shrugs* I will have to check out the recs for which BSB fics to read, otherwise... I am done!
[info]musicboxgirl wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 04:38 pm (UTC)
See, there's no point in reading a pairing that you just don't like. I like them all so I feel like I should at least try to read all of the fics but then there are a few that I *know* I shouldn't bother to finish but I still do and I'm not sure why. I've decided to just not FB every single story. Just, no. I should really go snag a fic and copy it into word so I can read while I "work".

I can't wait for the reveal. Also I have about 5 stories that are not MtYG that I need to FB (*cough cough* Letters to Prague*cough cough*
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 04:52 pm (UTC)
I already hate being at work, ugh. And I can't concentrate on fic at ALL. So annoying.

Actually, with some of my feedback, I got some interesting comments on mine that I really want the people to expand on (lots of, "I would've done it differently but..."), and it's frustrating to not be able to have a dialogue because of the anonymity :p By the time I get to reply, I'm sure they'll have forgotten alll about it.
[info]musicboxgirl wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 06:16 pm (UTC)
Yeah, not being able to reply is not so awesome. I've had a few I've really wanted to reply to.


I haven't had a chance to do anything but work. :( I hate today.
[info]bououou wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 04:25 pm (UTC)
I'm so jealous, that we don't get sing-a-long here! They look like so much fun. :(
As for feedbacks, I got more then last year, but I felt like some of them where forced; like people wanting to comment on absolutely all of them and didn't really want too. Or something.
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 04:48 pm (UTC)
I got a few of those "forced" feedbacks, too. I think I'd rather not get the feedback than get the kind where it's clear the person couldn't even finish the fic :/
[info]sylum_tru wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 05:19 pm (UTC)
i agree with your woe. i'm not prepared for this week and i just don't want to focus. i want to be reading MtYG. but i'm at school. fail.

good luck on the weightloss thing *waves pom poms*

also, what is this sing-a-long you speak of, because I WANTS IT :D

Edited at 2009-01-05 05:20 pm (UTC)
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 05:21 pm (UTC)
From what I have been reading, my outlook is Not So Good on the weight loss deal. Fucking Paxil. *hates*

Since I can't seem to focus on fic, maybe I DO have ADHD and could get my doctor to prescribe me adderall :P
[info]sylum_tru wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 05:22 pm (UTC)
oh, hey there's an idea that majorly rocks. i wonder if i have it...hmm..the possibilities...

DO EET

maybe that's what JC needs...adderall...
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 05:29 pm (UTC)
Only if the adderall can be focused to just make him lose his coke bloat in the face :P

Oh! And the sing along! the Alamo Drafthouse, which is an independent movie theatre here in Austin, does sing alongs quite often, where they show music videos and, uh, the audience sings along. That's actually how I got into popslash--I went to a boyband sing along a few years ago and knew there MUST be fic!
[info]nopseud wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 05:21 pm (UTC)
I've been pretty happy with my feedback. Having done two stories, it looks like I have a lot, though. And personally, I'm perfectly happy with a quick 'read your story' note, because I find it nice to know that they did read.

I'm contemplating doing some stats on feedback after the reveal, along with the stats about pairings and so on. Just general averages, not for specific stories. I will say that we're doing pretty well this year on recipients not feedbacking their santa at all, which is good.
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 05:23 pm (UTC)
I guess I'm sort of indifferent to the "read your story" kind of feedback, but only for MtYG, because then I just suspect they didn't actually read it and are just leaving feedback to say that they read everything or whatever. But normally, I love that kind of feedback. They don't have to write an essay :P

Stats would be fun! And I hope everyone ends up leaving feedback for their writers. Sigh.
[info]epicflailer wrote:
Jan. 6th, 2009 04:39 pm (UTC)
They don't have to write an essay :P

i will so keep that in mind the next time and strive to be, um, concise.
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 6th, 2009 04:55 pm (UTC)
Aww! I love your essays :)
[info]epicflailer wrote:
Jan. 6th, 2009 04:58 pm (UTC)
aww, yay! i think it would probably be pretty difficult to stop. /o\
[info]call_me_loca wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 06:44 pm (UTC)
I usually have no idea what to say when I feedback so it comes out looking like a fifth grader wrote it.

I've gotten more feedback than I expected, especially since my story was rather ridiculous and I pretty much hated it myself. Although I have been told it was predictable that I wrote it, whatever THAT means.

Paxil is evil. Adderall, sucks. I have no advice passed that, LOL.
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 07:07 pm (UTC)
Paxil really IS evil. I was never concerned with my weight pre-Paxil. I had an awesome metabolism and I was always on the lower end of my weight range. And then I started Paxil and gained 25 pounds in just a few months. Oh, AND it turned me into a zombie and only added to my anxiety because now I was worried about my weight in addition to everything else.

Five years later, I *still* can't lose any Paxil weight. The only time I managed to lose weight was when I was in grad school and couldn't actually afford food. I got one meal a day. And even then I only lost 5 pounds!
[info]puszysty wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 06:45 pm (UTC)
After my little post a couple days ago, I heard from 4 more people. Spoke too soon, I believe. So yes, I am satisfied with the amount of feedback, and my recipient loved it, so yay. :)

I will be at the same sing-a-long with my friend who is finally not too busy studying, yay! I will see you there I'm sure.
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 07:08 pm (UTC)
I think it will probably be sold out. I'm going with a LOT of people, it's such a random group, but sing alongs are always fun. YAY.
[info]puszysty wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 07:10 pm (UTC)
I have a ticket :). I haven't heard anything from the guy who'll be in McAllen, which is kind of a bummer, but I just saw him 4 days ago, so not a huge deal I suppose.

Yay singalongs!
[info]pensnest wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 06:59 pm (UTC)
My usual habit is to read the stories by recipient (from the bottom up), so in most cases I won't know what pairing to expect. I like it, sometimes, going into a story without knowing what's (broadly speaking) going to happen. But there aren't any pairings which actually squick me, so it's safe!

I was giddy with feedback last year because I wrote two stories - got 23 for my original assignment and 17 for the pinch-hit - so this year's haul (12) seems a bit meagre by comparison. On the other hand, there are many fewer writers in MTYG this year, thus presumably also many fewer readers. One should not repine. And the feedback has been the good kind, so I shan't complain.

I don't think I'm going to be an MTYG hero, though I'd hoped to. Being away for several days, after having had guests over Christmas, rather limited the time available for reading and thinking, and I find that if I do the read/respond thing too intensively I cease to be able to think of anything to say about whatever I've just read! And Bun wants us to go out dancing tonight, and we spent much of the day shopping... Also, every so often I read a story and am completely blank on what to say about it. I know there are a few stories I meant/mean to send FB on, if I can, before the reveal, but whether I'll get to them I dunno.

And somehow, we seem to stop sending feedback after the reveal, which can't be right...
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 07:12 pm (UTC)
Well, it gets less convenient to send feedback post-reveal, because the handy form goes away and copy/pasting the person's email is always so awkward for some reason. Also the "send feedback" link goes away, so you'd really have to email the person to send feedback. Maybe we can change that! I don't know, because it's so close to the reveal, but I wonder if we could at least keep the "send feedback" link and have it do a "mailto" instead of the mtyg feedback form. *ponders*

Anyway, that's about how much feedback I've gotten too. I think I got more last year, although not nearly as much as you (mpreg will do that, I suppose!), but all things considered I'm happy enough. My recipient liked it (and I think she genuinely liked it and wasn't Just Saying That), so that's all I really care about.
[info]dazifudo wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 08:54 pm (UTC)
Re: your metabolism. When I started getting treated for my thyroid, I was in the same place. Even though I was taking supplements, my metabolism was stuck in super slow mode, and I was getting really frustrated with working out and dieting for months with little to no progress. It does change eventually, though.

I know it's a little different situation, but you do have control over it. For some people it takes many, many months of working out and eating well to reverse the slow metabolism and get it normal again. It sucks, but you just have to keep working and eventually it'll happen.

Also, keep in mind that when you're looking up weight loss/Paxil stuff, you're only going to find the complaints. The people who were successful have no reason to complain, so there probably aren't as many of them talking about.

If you need a workout/nutrition buddy, I'm happy to help. I read way too much about that stuff. :)
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 09:18 pm (UTC)
The thing about Paxil is... from everything I've read (studies, not just complainers :P) there is no way to reverse the effects of Paxil on the metabolism. The year after I was in grad school, when I took the year off, I ran for 30 minutes (treadmill) a day plus conditioning and never managed to lose any weight. The best I seem to be able to do is maintain. I did lose a few pounds when I tried South Beach, but the moment I moved to phase 2, I gained it back. You've got your thyroid meds to help you out with your metabolism. I don't know that there's anything that can restore my adrenal health. If I got my pituitary cyst removed, that might help, but... I would really like to avoid brain surgery :/
[info]dazifudo wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 09:42 pm (UTC)
I wonder if seeing an endocrinologist would help? If your regular doc is useless, let me know and I'll give you contact info for mine.
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 10:08 pm (UTC)
I'm going to badger my doctor first, and see what I can get out of her. At the very least I am going to demand a lot of blood work. And if she dismisses me despite all that, I will try your guy.
[info]turps33 wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 09:22 pm (UTC)
I've received more feedback than I was expecting, and a lot of it is really good comments. I'm very satisfied this year.
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 09:26 pm (UTC)
That's awesome. I was worried after last year. We had quite a few recipients who never left feedback for their Santas, and that's just poor manners :/
[info]turps33 wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 09:32 pm (UTC)
That's one thing guaranteed to make me mad. I don't care if you think the story you get is the worst thing in the world you still say thank you. It's basic manners that everyone should know.
[info]phaballa wrote:
Jan. 5th, 2009 09:33 pm (UTC)
Yes. I mean, I got a story one year that didn't even have my PAIRING, and I still said thank you!

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